Hello there,

Growing up, I wanted to be a lot of things. I wanted to be a doctor, a lawyer, a teacher, a hairdresser, a seamstress, a Rev Sister, a nurse and list goes on.
To each profession there was a reason why I had considered it. And for a nurse, it was because of the small cute hat that they put on their head. To me it made them look so adorable and sweet. Back then, nurses were nice people and right now I'm wondering if it was because I was a child then.

These days, you'll hardly see a nurse wearing a cap, the sweet smile and having that adorable look. Why? Because they've taken it all off. If I tell you I no dey fear nurse's now, I dey lie. Their sharp tongue alone will increase your temperature. But of course, I'm talking about the bad nuts here.

So I ask, what attractive thing about you have you taken off? Maybe because of a bad experience with a situation or someone.
Is it your sweet smile, your amazing laughter, your friendliness, your playfulness, your encouraging words, your kind heart, your generosity? What is it?
That amazing unique thing about you that attracts people to you, that makes people want to be like you. What have you taken off?

I don't want to know why you took it off. I don't want to know why you had to change. I don't want to know anything. I want you to know that, the boat sinks because of the water that gets into it and to keep it afloat, the water is fetched and poured back into the ocean. A part of the boat doesn't get broken off to keep it afloat, it is the water that is fetched.

You know what that means? It means that you shouldn't let the troubles, challenges, bad attitude of people, etc take any sweet part away from you.
Be who you are regardless of what life may throw at you, regardless of how people will treat you, be full of the goodness and positivity you've always had.